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MERTON'S CORRESPONDENCE WITH:
Gaither, Marice "Mimi"

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Descriptive Summary

Record Group: Section A - Correspondence

Dates of materials: 1952-1971

Volume: 76 item(s); 85 pg(s)

Scope and Content

This recently acquired catch of letters was discovered by John E. King and donated to the Merton Center in 2001. King found a reference to a bound set of copied letters from Merton that John F. Gaither, Marice's son, put together. King was able to find John Gaither and obtain the originals for the Center. All the letters but one are from Merton to Gaither, or are from other monks of the monastery to Gaither.

These letters are primarily light and friendly correspondence between Merton and a regular supporter of Gethsemani. However, in their discussions of Mass intentions, John E. King points out the evolution of Merton's view of sanctification from the early to the late letters. The theme of becoming a saint stops in Merton's letters after the 1950's. (Source: King, John E. "A Small Window on a Complex Life." The Merton Seasonal: Fall 2001, pp. 19-23.)

Biography

Marice "Mimi" Gaither was a long time supporter of Gethsemani and often sent money for Mass intentions. She writes from Louisville.

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Related Information and Links

See also Merton's correspondence with Marice Gaither's son in the "Gaither, John Francis" file.

Other Finding Aids

If the person in correspondence with Merton has full text records in the Merton Center Digital Collections, there will be a numeric link to them below.
   

Series List

Series NumberSeries NameTotal Records
1 Merton-Gaither Correspondence 51
2 Gainer Correspondence with Gethsemani (not from or to Merton) 25

Container List

SeriesDateTypeTo/FromFirst LinesPubFull TextNotes
11952/01/21 HCSfrom MertonMany thanks to you for your kindness in sending me Masses for my intentions. Be sure that I will  [also enclosed is a check for $10.00 endorsed by Merton]
11954/05/20 HCSfrom MertonI said a Mass for the sick this morning, for the stipend you so kindly sent, including all your   
11954/08/28 TCSfrom MertonHow kind of you to send Masses for my intentions. It will give me a chance to offer Mass for some  [verso: standard note card for Mass intentions from Gethsemani: "Thank you for the alms which you have sent for 25 Masses. It is not always possible to comply with requests that Mass be offered by some particular Father"...]
11955/09/09 TNSfrom MertonOnce again I am overwhelmed by your kindness and generosity. Surely Our Lady herself has provided   
11956/01/03 TLSfrom Fox, JamesDuring the Christmas Festivities we tried to find an opportunity to write of our gratitude   
11957/11/05 TALSfrom MertonIt just happened, for a change, that the secretary's office passed on your latest letter, with the   
11958/05/17 TLSfrom MertonThis is to acknoqledge [sic] the check for $75. The Masses have been entered and I hope that they   
11958/12/19 TLSfrom MertonThank you again for your wonderful gift. You are much too generous to me. But I know that your   
11959/06/09 TLSfrom MertonI find myself indebted to you again. It seems I will never be otherwise. May the Lord Himself pay  [Merton encloses photograph of himself (see top of page)]
11959/11/12 TLSfrom MertonHere we go again: I think the Lord has raised you up to make sure that I retain some vestiges of  [encloses a "bigger, clearer and sillier picture" - black and white photograph by Sibylle Akers of Merton beside monastery wall]
11960/02/27 HLSfrom MertonYour letter and gift brought me joy in these last dark and snowy days. You are so kind -   
11960/06/15 TALSfrom MertonJust before I received your letter I had finally found Sally's address which I had lost, and I wrote   
11961/03/27 HPCSfrom MertonVery many cordial thanks for your Easter gift. You will be included in all my Masses in this most  [verso: black and white photograph of the face of a carved wooden crucifix from Germany]
11961/08/09 TLSfrom MertonYour letter is here in the bunch of unanswered letters, and I am not positive that it is totally   
11961/11/08 TLSfrom MertonI am very sorry for the delay, again. I have been terribly busy. There are a lot of things I just   
11962/03/09 TLSfrom MertonThank you for your good letter and for the enclosure. I will never cease to be grateful for your   
11962/11/10 TLSfrom MertonThanks again for the Masses. Your gifts enable me to say Mass for all kinds of intentions that are   
11963/04/08 TLSfrom MertonMy far flung net of secret service agents tells me that you are not in good health at all.   
11963/06/28 TLSfrom MertonThanks again for the letter and for the immense gift: for the Mass is without limit. I shall be  [Merton encloses a signed, black and white, close-up photo of himself by John Howard Griffin]
11963/12/26 HCSfrom MertonJust a note to thank you and wish you all blessings. Keep courageous - we all have troubles.   
11964/01/23 HPCSfrom MertonI am awfully sorry to hear you are having trouble but I hope and pray the operation was successful  [verso: "Interior: St. John's Abbey and University Church, Collegeville, Minn."]
11964/03/03 TNSfrom MertonThanks for your letter and for the good news that you are going home today. Thanks above all   
11964/07/12 TNSfrom MertonI have been saying the masses regularly for your Mother. How is she? Certainly it would be a grace   
11965/02/19 HNSfrom MertonJust a note to say I got your letter and offer Masses for Alice Mattingly as soon as I can.   
11965/07/20 HLto MertonThank you so much for your very kind note that came some time ago - I appreciated it more than I can   
11966/01/17 HNSfrom MertonDid I ever acknowledge the Masses you sent in December? With all the rush of Christmas   
11966/01/30 HNSfrom MertonThanks for the letter. I will take care of the Masses. Please tell Nan how sorry I am to   
11966/04/21 HNSfrom MertonThanks again - I enjoyed your letter and will say the Masses with joy: the needs and intentions   
11966/07/11 TLSfrom MertonThanks for your letter, for the stipends and for the relatively good news. I will as always be   
11966/10/18 TCSfrom MertonI am sorry to hear of the spread of Mother's cancer but at least glad she is not in pain. How brave   
11967/01/31 TNSfrom MertonWell, God came and took little Mother back to Himself at last. Her sufferings are over and now He   
11967/03/26 TLS from Merton to FriendsIt has been a beautiful warm Easter here, though the most recent news from the East Coast complainsYes [see also "Circular Letters to 'Friends'" - labeled "Easter 1967"]
11967/10/23 TLSfrom MertonThanks again-- it is good above all to hear from you and to have news of the family.   
11968/01/01 TALS from Merton to FriendsChristmas mail was an avalanche this year: it always is, but more so in 1967. News from friendsYes [labeled "NEW YEAR'S LETTER 1968" - adds a short note to Gaither concerning Mass intentions]
11968/04/20 TLSfrom MertonHere's a little picture I took: it brings you inside the enclosure of the monks: an old beat up  [paper has photocopied photograph of a section inside the cloister wall - "an old beat up wall and Our Lady quite and serene in the midst of everything"]
11968/04/no? TL[c] from Merton to FriendsAs I write this there is snow on the ground from a blizzard we had the other day, but the sun isYes [labeled "EASTER LETTER 1968"]
11968/08/05 TANSfrom MertonIt must be awful rough on Nancy to be in the hospital in hot weather like this. I hope all is   
11968/08/07 TNSfrom MertonYesterday I mailed my letter to you just before getting yours about Nan. I am sorry she is having   
11968/09/no? TLS[x]from MertonAs you know, I have been cutting down more and more on letters and now my contacts will be almostYes [labeled "FALL 1968"]
1undated/no/no (#01)HCSfrom MertonThanks for the "little old Christmas letter" and I'm glad the heart demanded it.   
1undated/no/no (#02)HNSfrom MertonGlad to hear the good news. Take a good rest and when you get home ask Jesus to be patient in you   
1undated/no/no (#03)HNSfrom MertonThanks again for letter, news and gift. I have many to pray for everywhere and there is   
1undated/no/no (#04)HCSfrom MertonMany thanks for your beautiful gift and kind remembrances to all of you at Easter - very special   
1undated/no/no (#05)HPCSfrom MertonThanks for the check for Masses and for all the family news. I will be saying the Masses for all   
1undated/no/no (#06)TCSfrom MertonI am always in your debt, and now as much as ever. Thanks for all your thoughtfulness and for your  [includes a card printed at Nazareth College in Rochester, New York, with a drawing of a kneeling monk and quote from Merton: "Let my eyes see nothing in this world but your glory [-] Let my hands touch nothing that is not for your service"]
1undated/no/no (#07)HCSfrom MertonYour letters are always so kind that they fill me with confusion. But indeed God is good..   
1undated/no/no (#08)TNSfrom MertonI can hardly find words to express my appreciation of your kindness and charity. Surely the Sacred   
1undated/no/no (#09)HCSfrom MertonYour letter about dear Ann's sickness is distressing and I am seeing that seven Masses will be said   
1undated/no/no (#10)HNSfrom MertonThanks again for your wonderful and unfailing kindness. I will keep up the Masses for your  [written on verso of a "PRAYER for PEACE" - "(This prayer, written by Father Thomas Merton, was read in the House of Representatives by Congressman Frank Kowalski (Dem., Connecticut) on April 17, 1962 - Tuesday in Holy Week)" - (see also "Laucks, Irving F." file)]
1undated/no/no (#12)HCSfrom MertonAgain- more of your wonderful generosity. May I include in these Masses something for <u>others</u>   
1undated/no/no (#14)HNSfrom MertonMany thanks for your letter and for the Masses. So many priests are having a rough time these days.   
21953/02/15 other Thomas Merton's Sequel To His 1948 Autobiography [-] A Review by William Habich  [newspaper clipping from the Louisville Courier-Journal]
21953/02/23 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.We are deeply grateful for your continued interest and support of the work here at the Abbey of Our   
21953/12/21 TNSfrom Gethsemani AbbeyWe are most grateful for your kind and generous offering for Five Holy Masses, for intentions   
21954/04/23 TCfrom Gethsemani AbbeyYour generous donation for the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass has been gratefully received.   
21954/05/18 TCfrom Gethsemani AbbeyYour generous donation for the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass has been gratefully received.   
21954/05/19 TCSfrom Fox, JamesFather Louis received your letter and thanks you for the Masses and appreciation. He will say one   
21956/04/10 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.What joy should not fill our hearts as we come to the glory of Easter thru the evil of a Good Friday   
21956/04/27 TALSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.I hope you will forgive the delay in writing you but my good mother was down last week for her   
21956/06/05 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.I have been praying for you during this Octave of Corpus Christi as I kneel before the Blessed   
21956/08/23 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.Before I go to Choir to sing Vespers I want to drop this note to tell you that we received   
21956/12/26 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.May the manger of your heart be guarded by the faithful Joseph - be warmed by the tender Mary -   
21957/01/02 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.Your good letter arrived and was given our devoted and immediate attention. It was today that I   
21957/03/06 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.I have just come to work this afternoon and the first letter I see on our desk is yours and we are   
21957/04/26 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.May the Risen Jesus bless you for your unbounded kindness and thoughtfulness in remembering   
21957/05/31 TLSfrom Francis de Sales, Fr., O.C.S.O.The first bell for Vespers is ringing and that means the end of another day's work for a Trappist   
21957/07/04 HCSfrom Gerard, Fr., O.C.S.O.Your will ever be an object of the King's love, for Jesus never forgets!  [Fr. Gerard of Genesee Abbey in Piffard, New York]
21968/09/16 TLSfrom Hart, PatrickYour kind letter addressed to our Father Louis Merton was gratefully received, and turned over to me  [from Br. Patrick Hart, O.C.S.O., secretary to Merton]
21968/11/08 TLSfrom Hart, PatrickThanks so much for your kind note with the enclosed greeting and check for Father Louis. Today I am  [from Br. Patrick Hart, O.C.S.O., secretary to Merton]
21968/12/11 (#01)telegramfrom Gethsemani AbbeyWE REGRET TO INFORM YOU OF THE DEATH OF FATHER THOMAS MERTON IN BANGKOK   
21968/12/11 (#02)TL from Trappists in Bangkok / to Flavian BurnsThe news of the sudden and unexpected death of your beloved son, Father Louis, has already been  [from six Trappist delegates at the conference in Bangkok to Dom Flavian Burns, Abbot of Gethsemani, in response to Merton's death - 2 copies]
21968/12/19 TLSfrom Lawrence, Br., O.C.S.O.Father Flavian wishes me to thank you for your most generous donation. He has also offered the Holy  [typed note at the bottom of a general message from Gethsemani to friends concerning Merton's funeral on 1968/12/17]
21969/06/03 TLSfrom Bernard, Fr., O.C.S.O.Peace and joy to you in the Holy Spirit! Father Flavian handed me your kind letter of May 29,   
21971/03/16 HLSfrom Burns, FlavianThank you for your kind note of March 13 and your generous offering for Holy Mass. I will begin   
2undated/no/no (#11)TLfrom Frater M. Z., O.C.S.O.Father Louis was quite surprised to hear that he is supposed to be Prior here. The truth is that he  [from the secretary to Dom James Fox - Merton "asks that you pray for him, that he will become a saint"]
2undated/no/no (#13)TLSfrom Kostka, Fr., O.C.S.O.We received your kind letter of January 21, and the enclosed stipend for Holy Masses.   
        

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